I love personal finance books. The inspirational stories, the triumphs over debt, the famous guy who stopped buying lattes and suddenly had a million dollars in his bank account a few months later. (Well, not really. I think it took 30 years or so for him to rack up a few hundred thousand, but that's almost besides the point).
The only problem with personal finance books is that you don't need to read a whole book to get the gist of the ideas presented. In fact, a recent SmartMoney feature sums up how to save some money and get ahead in five straightforward, very practical points. (See, "Top 5ive Ways To Get Ahead"). The tips include how to get higher interest on your savings, pay lower interest on your debt, save more money on income taxes and get a raise.
But take a step back and I can sum up the key to financial security even more concisely: Stop buying so much stuff. The truth is, for most people, it's a lot easier to spend less money than it is to make more money. And every dollar you don't spend today helps keep you out of debt, save more and can even be turned into investment income one day.
So before you get carried away by the thrill of a new purchase, ask yourself: Do you really need a new car, or a bigger house or a flat-screen TV (definitely I would say no to the latter)?
Don't pat yourself on the back for finding a bargain, congratulate yourself for foregoing the purchase in the first place. Many times I've heard a friend boast that she bought a cute new blouse at Target Corporation (NYSE:TGT) for only $17. Next time, don't buy a new blouse at all, I say.
And, since I'm really on my soap box now, think about this, please: Do your kids need all those presents that will break or be discarded in a few months time? If you want to splurge on some nice gifts, choose ones that not only will last, but may actually increase in value over time. (For more on this, see my post, "Gifts that keep on giving: These 10 Will Appreciate in Value.")
Stop making a trip to The Home Depot, Inc. (NYSE:HD) or Wal-Mart Stores, Inc. (NYSE:WMT) part of your weekend routine. Don't even look at the sales circulars in the newspaper. Throw out your catalogs without opening them. Stop browsing Amazon.com, Inc. (NASDAQ:AMZN) at work.
You can boil all this advice down even further: Stop shopping so much. Make do with your old stuff, fix items that are broken, borrow from a neighbor or family member when you need some sort of specialty item.
Does that last point sound crass? I'm not talking about trying to get a regular loaner of a lawnmower or gas grill. But if you are planning a long road trip, don't go out and buy a portable DVD player, see if a friend has one you can borrow. (In my experience these things are real dust-gatherers after purchase). Same goes with digital video cameras -- want to tape your daughter's school play? Borrow a camcorder, don't buy one.
Of course, it's fun to buy new stuff. And certain purchases really can improve one's quality of life. It's just hard to know which ones really matter until you've gotten the item home and tried it out for a while. (I was recently surprised how happy a new lamp made me, for example). Still, I think it's a worthy goal: Buy less stuff, save more money, enjoy more financial security.











Reader Comments (Page 1 of 2)
12-02-2006 @ 9:58AM
Michael B. said...
Buy less stuff?!! Don't you know that mindless materialism is what keeps our economy chugging along? If people buy less stuff, what's going to happen to the stock market. The auto industry is already on the ropes. We must SPEND, SPEND, SPEND, until we die. It's the American way.
12-02-2006 @ 11:47AM
Don said...
My friends can spend spend spend and prop up the economy. Personally I don't feel that requirement myself. Perhaps a selfish attitude like mine could bring down the whole house of cards. Luckily most people don't share it.
12-02-2006 @ 2:34PM
joe said...
if u must spend, learn how to do it right.
check out the personal finance book 'bonanza bits' @iuniverse.com,b&n, or any other book web-site
enjoy
12-02-2006 @ 2:35PM
joe said...
if u must spend, learn how to do it right.
check out the personal finance book 'bonanza bits' @iuniverse.com,b&n, or any other book web-site
enjoy
12-02-2006 @ 4:25PM
ejpasseos said...
Great post. Since discovering yoga, I've really found I can love things that are free. Fresh air, time outside with children, yoga, running, lifting weights, all give me the same satisfaction as obsessing over the newest Tag Heuer watch. In reality, "wanting" things can't be satisfied. You have to consciously think about whether you need those items. I still love my Nike running shoes and a nice computer, but I don't longer focus on purchases.
Again, great post.
12-02-2006 @ 5:32PM
louise feak said...
too bad many of our young people don't heed this great advice, some seniors as well.We can do without so many things how about a few patches over the old, as my grandma did raising 14 kids, It isn;t old fashioned to be thrifty, it's the way to go. do you suppose bill gates started out buying// buying?? good comments
12-02-2006 @ 8:38PM
Tom K said...
I think your ideas are great. I lived by them for many years but then after the kids left home I fell into the "I want that" mode. However I still resist buying or shopping for that matter. If I shop, I go to the store that only has what I want, buy, then emmediatelly leave. However I am not as rich as I would like to be.
12-02-2006 @ 10:21PM
James Swanson said...
We have found it works well that when we buy a major item we thoroughly check the various brands and prices. We then buy the best quality we can afford--not the one with most bells and whistles--and then we take care of it. Most of our "stuff" is getting old, but still works well. We try to pay cash. Thus, most of the time we are not making monthly payments on something. When a major item must be replaced, we go through the same routine again. Buying a discontinued model makes sense--if it is the one we would buy anyway. We never buy an item based on price alone. It must be the best we can afford. It really pays to shop around and compare prices for identical items. Sorry--I have no loyalty to certain brands.
12-03-2006 @ 9:00AM
Shop Optimierung said...
A very interesting site, I think. The Idea of Technometry was new for me but worth to be read and thought abot it (although I'm not a native english-speaker and have some difficulties whith this language)
12-03-2006 @ 5:55PM
jon said...
9 makes a good point - if you feel the urge to buy something online, go buy some stock instead! You still get that sensation of buying something, but with stock you're actually building value for yourself.
12-03-2006 @ 11:17PM
Another Black Season said...
Great advice to buy stocks in place of non essentials.
But...if you must buy online click my link and follow the blog to iTunes & Another Black Season's music - I suggest "The Only Sun" on iTunes. Hey, I want to retire someday too. :)
12-04-2006 @ 7:24AM
Lee Leon said...
After a big dig out of my financial debacle, I now play a new game. Whenever I decide to buy something on line, I transfer that money into an online savings account instead. If you can spend on line, you can save online. I'm choking myself with my 401k contribution, I buy powdered milk, store brand everything and I sell all I can on Ebay. It's my money and I want to see it. I love watching it grow. And when the clerk asks me to open a store credit card, I tell them , no thank you, I already have every shirt in every colour! I bought Google at 91, I want more money in case an opportunity like that comes around again!
12-04-2006 @ 8:37AM
The_Village_Idiot said...
The bored (show-off) American cannot stop his/her needless material quest. Your advice (although I agree with it) is like giving the "if you're fat; don't eat so much" diet advise. Sounds so simple but you know it'll never happen.
12-04-2006 @ 8:55AM
TimALoftis said...
wow...easier said than done.
12-04-2006 @ 10:57AM
Judity said...
Buy less stuff? How dare you spread such blasphemy!
Next you'll be telling people that to lose weight, they should exercise more and cut back on their fatty food intake.
Judity
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12-04-2006 @ 1:08PM
Polly said...
I agree with the philosophy here 100%. You are not saying *stop buying anything,* rather buy LESS and THINK before you buy. Good advice! In my opinion, there is entirely too much emphasis on buying for the sake of buying.
12-04-2006 @ 2:35PM
CC said...
I barely earn $20,000 a year, yet i have a nice apt., car, take a trip once a year etc. I do it by NOT buying coffee daily (it's a speacial treat), not upgrading my phone service, cable, etc (i'm quite happy with the basics) I've used the same cell phone for 7 years (it still works, and i'm grandfathered in at a fantastic rate, that i'd lose if i upgraded). I buy clothes that are nice and take care of them well. A classic black sweater is timeless! The funniest thing is when coworkers who earn exactly what i make, try to ask me for money, or think i'm somehow rich. (but then they spend their money on CIGARETTES, eating out all the time etc, and wonder why they can't afford a car)
12-04-2006 @ 4:43PM
Jennifer said...
I just loved this article. There is such an obsession with instant gratification these days, it's almost shocking. Watching the news and seeing people trample over one another to get into a Walmart makes me feel sick. All for what, some useless item? My God, people don't have water in some countries and we are killing each other over playstation 3. I don't mean to sound all touchy-feely but we are, by our actions, raising a generation of individuals who look outside of themselves for everything and that is a sad state of affairs. If we focused less on things to define a person and actually looked at developing ourselves as individuals, wow, what an amazing place this world would be. I say enjoy your friends and family this holiday season and be thankful for the things you have rather than worrying about the things you don't. Not only will you have a sense of self but as the article said, you'll have money to retire on!
12-05-2006 @ 7:58AM
tina said...
I am a 23 year old college grad and I make $32,000 a year. I always read books to help me get out of debt. When I started my job nine months ago I was in $6,200 in credit card debt.I did not mind that debt because I paid for school and books with those credit cards. After I graduated I cut up all my credit cards and now I am $3,900 in credit card debt. I just want to say that yes it is hard not spending especially when you watch t.v and thats all you see, but I know that I can survive without those $60.00 jeans. I still get compliments on my shoes that I have had since my senior year of high school. So I think that anyone who is determined to get out of debt can!! I am living proof!
12-18-2006 @ 10:58PM
Dee said...
The reality is that the economy would not fail if people held onto their money. The huge billion-dollar corporations would go into a frenzy lowering their (inflated!) prices on cars, clothing, entertainment, food, and just about everything else on the market--if we only said "no." If more people carpooled, walked, and refused to buy new gas-guzzlers, then, again, the car and oil industries would have to take notice. In this country, money is the key to power and control and if more people realized this, then more of us might actually be able to have more say about what's going on.